Twenty Something Blessings

I have always looked forward to my twentieth birthday. There is something about entering your twentieth year that fills one with deep apprehension, fear and excitement at what is to come. Maybe it is because a lot of people say that it is the foundation one sets during one’s twenties that guides most of one’s…

Don’t Save Him, He Don’t Wanna Be Saved (Plus You Aint His Mama)

I recently came across a tweet that said that men were hurting the females who God had sent to heal them and once again I shook my head in disagreement. I was also affirmed by other Twitter users who pointed out that women don’t come with magical healing powers. That tweet in particular was triggering…

These “Kitchen Duties” Though…

My people, since when in the history of humankind has boiling rice and stirring soups/stews ever kept a marriage not just together, but truly happy?

Note To Younger Me

First of all I’m going to call you by your full name. Angel Chinenyenwa Nduka-Nwosu. If you like frown up and down, darling your names are beautiful. I know you sometimes think that Angel is too babyish and that Chinenyenwa is too “Igbotic”(Whatever that means) but in the nearest future you would find yourself returning…